{"id":11022,"date":"2020-09-14T14:06:54","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T18:06:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/?p=11022"},"modified":"2020-09-14T14:10:32","modified_gmt":"2020-09-14T18:10:32","slug":"the-view-from-here-remember-to-breathe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/blogs\/afternoons\/2020\/09\/the-view-from-here-remember-to-breathe\/","title":{"rendered":"The View From Here &#8211; Remember To Breathe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oh my.<\/p>\n<p>The school year has commenced.\u00a0 But not without a lot of stress and frustration, and a touch of sadness.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a milestone year for our family and it has nothing to do with the pandemic.<\/p>\n<p>Through this pandemic world &#8211; with masks, sanitizer, hand washing, social distancing, assigned seating on buses &#8211; it&#8217;s a big year for my kids.\u00a0 Or for me.<\/p>\n<p>My oldest daughter is finishing high school this year.\u00a0 I&#8217;m not ready to accept that as a parent.\u00a0 \u00a0It means at the end of the school year she could be headed off to college or university, and that could mean out of the house.\u00a0 GASP.\u00a0 I am not ready for that.\u00a0 Not ready for her to leave home.\u00a0 But I know it&#8217;s coming sooner than I&#8217;d like.\u00a0 Whether I&#8217;m ready for it or not.<\/p>\n<p>My youngest daughter &#8211; our baby &#8211; started high school today.\u00a0 Big changes.\u00a0 Big adjustments.\u00a0 \u00a0Scary on a regular school day.\u00a0 \u00a0 Isn&#8217;t it hard to see our kids go through uncomfortable stuff?\u00a0 You want to take it all away.\u00a0 Save them from all of it.\u00a0 Knowing they have to go through it on their own doesn&#8217;t make it easier to watch.<\/p>\n<p>I told her she has it good.\u00a0 She doesn&#8217;t have to worry about running from locker to class four times a day. She doesn&#8217;t have to worry about opening her locker in a hurry.\u00a0 \u00a0Forgetting the combination.\u00a0 She has one class.\u00a0 No lockers.\u00a0 \u00a0I&#8217;m trying to find the positive in the situation.\u00a0 (smile)<\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s hard on our kids (and teachers) being stuck in the same room all day.\u00a0 \u00a0But as someone who got lost multiple times on her first day of high school, had trouble opening her locker AND almost missed the bus &#8211; yep.\u00a0 She might have it a bit easier.<\/p>\n<p>Anybody else remember their first day of high school?\u00a0 Yep.\u00a0 Shivers. (smile)<\/p>\n<p>It was a bumpy start to the school year it&#8217;s true.\u00a0 Delayed starts.\u00a0 Staggered entry.\u00a0 This past week was a 12 on the stress scale.\u00a0 Trying to figure everything out.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you teachers.\u00a0 Thank you school staff.\u00a0 \u00a0It&#8217;s been a LOT to work through and sort out.\u00a0 And even through all the bumps &#8211; we made it.<\/p>\n<p>This is one for the history books.\u00a0 \u00a0It&#8217;s never been done before.\u00a0 \u00a0Our kids will have a better story to tell their grandkids than our &#8220;I walked to school, uphill, both ways, in the snow&#8221; stories.\u00a0 (smile)<\/p>\n<p>Which I kinda did.\u00a0 I did walk to school in grade seven and eight actually.\u00a0 It was a good 40 minute walk too. I live to tell the tale.\u00a0 (smile).<\/p>\n<p>I get that it&#8217;s been challenging and we aren&#8217;t out of the woods yet.\u00a0 But I remain hopeful.\u00a0 That we will get back to normal and be stronger for it.<\/p>\n<p>At least my closets will be cleaned and organized.<\/p>\n<p>Anybody else watching &#8220;Get Organized with The Home Edit&#8221; on Netflix right now?<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-shortcode embed-container\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" width=\"610\" height=\"355\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/XPg_BE6EA94\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>I&#8217;m addicted.\u00a0 I&#8217;m totally hooked.<\/p>\n<p>Two ladies &#8211; come in and transform living spaces.<\/p>\n<p>Kitchens.\u00a0 Pantries.\u00a0 Fridges and freezers.\u00a0 Closets.\u00a0 Basements.<\/p>\n<p>They create zones and put things in their place in a lovely rainbow pattern.\u00a0 It&#8217;s mesmerizing and inspiring to watch.<\/p>\n<p>So much so that I attempted my own &#8220;home edit&#8221; this weekend.\u00a0 It drove everyone else in my house crazy.\u00a0 I think they wished I would just sit and relax.\u00a0 Instead, I was on a mission to clean and organize EVERYTHING &#8211; I think it took my mind off the back to school chaos.\u00a0 No schedule for my oldest online learning.\u00a0 My youngest &#8211; worried about starting a new school in a pandemic.\u00a0 Assigned seating.\u00a0 Uniforms.\u00a0 Which &#8211; by the way &#8211; I learned to HEM pants for the very first time.\u00a0 Yes, I cheated by using the hemming tape.\u00a0 But I had to go buy an iron to do it.\u00a0 And thank goodness for the internet &#8211; there really is a how to for everything on YouTube.<\/p>\n<p>So yes, it&#8217;s been an organized, chaotic mess in my house these last few days.\u00a0 Thankfully for that there is chocolate.\u00a0 Lots and lots of chocolate.\u00a0 And stretchy pants.\u00a0 See, there is always, always something to be thankful for. (smile)<\/p>\n<p>I hope it&#8217;s been a good back to school experience for you and your kids are loving the experience however that looks.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m still working from home, sharing my office space with my daughter.\u00a0 Maybe I&#8217;ll learn some new skills.\u00a0 Maybe she&#8217;ll put away some dishes between classes.<\/p>\n<p>#winwin<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Oh my. The school year has commenced.\u00a0 But not without a lot of stress and frustration, and a touch of sadness.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a milestone year for our family and it has nothing to do with the pandemic. 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