{"id":11268,"date":"2020-09-29T15:16:27","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T19:16:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/?p=11268"},"modified":"2020-09-29T15:16:27","modified_gmt":"2020-09-29T19:16:27","slug":"the-view-from-here-checking-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/blogs\/afternoons\/2020\/09\/the-view-from-here-checking-in\/","title":{"rendered":"The View From Here &#8211; Checking In"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s &#8220;Coffee Day&#8221;.\u00a0 So let&#8217;s sit.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s have a coffee (or beverage of choice) and chat.\u00a0 You know, like we used to?\u00a0 Before #covid19 made it almost impossible.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t remember the last time I went out for coffee with a friend.\u00a0 It&#8217;s been a long time.<\/p>\n<p>So today, right now, let&#8217;s have a coffee break together.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve got my coffee.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve got a few cinnamon sugar mini-donuts.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s talk.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s on your mind?\u00a0 How are you feeling right now?<\/p>\n<p>Exhausted from all the negativity online?\u00a0 I am.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a dark place with lots of opinions.<\/p>\n<p>My dad is going for surgery on Friday and I can&#8217;t be there.\u00a0 Only my second mom is allowed in.\u00a0 The day AFTER.\u00a0 Thank you covid (sarcasm).\u00a0If I&#8217;m distracted this week &#8211; you now know why.\u00a0 I hate that we can&#8217;t be together as a family while we wait.\u00a0 And that&#8217;s how it is for anyone right now.\u00a0 It sucks and it&#8217;s hard.<\/p>\n<p>I forgot to wear a mask in a store last week.\u00a0 I was more afraid of people&#8217;s reaction than of covid.\u00a0 #truth<\/p>\n<p>It was a rush into a store for something my daughter needed for a school art project and I completely forgot.\u00a0 In the moment &#8211; it was normal life.\u00a0 And than I felt the panic when I realized I had forgotten.<\/p>\n<p>We are all tired.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of the negative.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of the headlines.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of not being able to get together.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of seeing all the things we look forward to get cancelled &#8211; one right after the other.<\/p>\n<p>No Christmas parades.<\/p>\n<p>No New Years in Times Square in New York.<\/p>\n<p>Hard to stay positive, right?<\/p>\n<p>At the same time &#8211; if you&#8217;re still alive in the world and you are healthy and your family and friends are healthy &#8211; there is a lot to be thankful for.\u00a0 Despite everything else.<\/p>\n<p>Nope, it&#8217;s not the same.<\/p>\n<p>I just wish we could get back to that place where we felt we were in this together.\u00a0 \u00a0Because that&#8217;s what will help us through this.\u00a0 \u00a0So we can get back to the way it was.<\/p>\n<p>Where we can sit in coffee shops and other places freely.<\/p>\n<p>And really enjoy our coffee.\u00a0 And each other.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s &#8220;Coffee Day&#8221;.\u00a0 So let&#8217;s sit.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s have a coffee (or beverage of choice) and chat.\u00a0 You know, like we used to?\u00a0 Before #covid19 made it almost impossible. 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