{"id":11966,"date":"2020-11-19T17:37:35","date_gmt":"2020-11-19T22:37:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/?p=11966"},"modified":"2020-11-19T17:40:55","modified_gmt":"2020-11-19T22:40:55","slug":"the-view-from-here-take-a-break-if-you-need-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/blogs\/afternoons\/2020\/11\/the-view-from-here-take-a-break-if-you-need-to\/","title":{"rendered":"The View From Here &#8211; Take A Break If You Need To"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Like Britney Spears sang once &#8220;Oops, I did it again.&#8221;\u00a0 I am giving up social media.\u00a0 GASP.<\/p>\n<p>Not that I think she was singing about giving up social media, but that&#8217;s what I did.\u00a0 Not really an oops.\u00a0 It was absolutely intentional.\u00a0 I deactivated my social media accounts and I feel like I can breath again.<\/p>\n<p>It was getting to be too much.\u00a0 Too much anger and frustration pouring out in the posts and comments.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t know about you, but I think I absorb it.\u00a0 I take in the energy being poured out.\u00a0 And it was getting to be too much for me.<\/p>\n<p>And that online clean up has turned into much more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-11967 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.briwebapp.net\/2020\/11\/b5845c40-phone-screen.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"191\" height=\"340\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I took time to pretty up my phone screen and organize my apps.\u00a0 Not without help from my 17-year old.\u00a0 \u00a0This colour co-ordinating clean up trend is taking over right now.\u00a0 Even the girls who bring you the Colour Edit and the Happy Planner are doing it.\u00a0 I have to say, I like it a lot more.\u00a0 It&#8217;s &#8220;pretty&#8221; now.\u00a0 (smile)<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t embrace technology really well.\u00a0 I honestly don&#8217;t love apps and I don&#8217;t use my phone for much.\u00a0 But I love using the widgets for motivational quotes and pictures, and\u00a0I got to do it because I wasn&#8217;t spending all my free time mindlessly scrolling Facebook or Instagram.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ve ever taken a break &#8211; but boy oh boy do you realize just how much time you spend on it when you&#8217;re not doing it.<\/p>\n<p>I actually picked up a book for the first time in a long time and I don&#8217;t feel nearly as upset, stressed out or angry at the world now that I&#8217;m not feeding my body all that negative stuff.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not to say there isn&#8217;t a place for it.\u00a0 Because I do love connecting with people and seeing friends and family and being able to stay in touch.<\/p>\n<p>But I think we all have to have boundaries with social media and know when to walk away and take a break.\u00a0 I read today about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ctvnews.ca\/sci-tech\/smartphones-may-be-making-us-more-impulsive-study-finds-1.5196021?cid=sm%3Atrueanthem%3Actvnews%3Apost&amp;utm_campaign=trueAnthem%3A%20Trending%20Content&amp;utm_medium=trueAnthem&amp;utm_source=facebook&amp;fbclid=IwAR2grS6CdpdYzXlzbt2AXq_bAThASV-E5VsqwEYbb0J_yEPgxVqXksxldHk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a new study<\/a> that says the more we use our smartphones, the more impulsive we are.\u00a0 Adding to the research already out there that says\u00a0 &#8220;excessive screen time has negative impacts.\u00a0 Smartphone use can make headaches worse, can disrupt sleep patterns and can negatively impact mental health.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Yep.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not easy.\u00a0 I realize I was addicted to those little notifications.\u00a0 I was checking a post for likes and comments right after I shared it.\u00a0 I was looking for some kind of comfort or affirmation and I didn&#8217;t like that.\u00a0 I was starting to criticize myself and compare myself and question myself.\u00a0 I really didn&#8217;t like that.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been six days and so far I feel better for it.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of social media, I&#8217;ve reached out to people in other ways to stay connected.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve had more time to do other things.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m also changing some other habits.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve gone back to regular TV viewing.\u00a0 This Is Us.\u00a0 Every Tuesday at 9.\u00a0 I look forward to a day on the calendar.\u00a0 But I guess This is Us isn&#8217;t back until January?\u00a0 That&#8217;s cruel and unfair in an already cruel pandemic world. (smile)<\/p>\n<p>The Crown came out on Sunday.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve decided I&#8217;m going to dedicate Sunday night at 9 to watching ONE episode.\u00a0 NO binge watching.\u00a0 Which is a habit I was easily getting into.\u00a0 I mean, I&#8217;m calling the cast of Schitt&#8217;s Creek my family.\u00a0 They&#8217;re in my living room every night and have been for months.\u00a0 I love you Dan Levy.\u00a0 Call me.\u00a0 (smile)<\/p>\n<p>This pandemic has been HARD.\u00a0 People are tired and frustrated and just want it to be over.\u00a0 Me too.<\/p>\n<p>But I know for me, I need to be careful about what I&#8217;m thinking about and watching right now more than ever.<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;m changing some habits to help me through it.<\/p>\n<p>I want more happy in my life.\u00a0 I want something to look forward to.\u00a0 Because for the past few months of working from home, every day has felt the same and I need to shake things up and make sure that I keep focusing on simple things that bring me joy.<\/p>\n<p>You can chose what you surround yourself with and I&#8217;m choosing positivity.<\/p>\n<p>If anyone would like to reach out to me &#8211; send me an email ANYTIME cbuchanan@blackburnradio.com.\u00a0 Send me an old fashioned letter 1415 London Road, Sarnia, ON N7S 1P6.\u00a0 I would love to exchange Christmas cards!<\/p>\n<p>Less is more still means something and I know for me I want to get back to that.<\/p>\n<p>We have so much information coming at us every single day.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s get back to simple things that bring us joy.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Like Britney Spears sang once &#8220;Oops, I did it again.&#8221;\u00a0 I am giving up social media.\u00a0 GASP. 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