{"id":13880,"date":"2021-03-30T15:10:20","date_gmt":"2021-03-30T19:10:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/?p=13880"},"modified":"2021-03-30T16:22:42","modified_gmt":"2021-03-30T20:22:42","slug":"the-view-from-here-please-tell-me-im-not-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/blogs\/afternoons\/2021\/03\/the-view-from-here-please-tell-me-im-not-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"The View From Here &#8211; Please Tell Me I&#8217;m Not Alone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I need a pep talk.\u00a0 \u00a0I need some encouragement and motivation.<\/p>\n<p>This weekend, in an attempt to paint my toenails and pretty them up in anticipation of warmer weather and a farewell to socks, I broke my back.\u00a0 OK, not REALLY.\u00a0 But I did something that made it next to impossible for me to stand, sit or basically do anything without a great deal of pain.\u00a0 Not fun. Yesterday I was lucky enough to get into a chiropractor for some relief. Let me tell you, I need to work on my &#8220;story&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Doctor &#8220;What did you do?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Me &#8220;Uh, painted my toes?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Cue dramatic music for effect.<\/p>\n<p>Our bodies are pretty amazing, the way they are connected and how they work.\u00a0 I was given an explanation as to what happened.\u00a0 Likely from pushing too hard in my home workouts and not listening to my body when I felt a bit of discomfort.\u00a0 Painting my toes pushed my back too far. (smile)<\/p>\n<p>As I sat in the office, undergoing some cool electro-treatment, I had to sit in front of a mirror.\u00a0 \u00a0I don&#8217;t love my reflection on a good day.\u00a0 \u00a0But to sit and really look at myself, sitting there on the bench, I felt sad.<\/p>\n<p>Anybody else feeling like they&#8217;ve lost themselves lately?\u00a0 Staying home, away from friends and family we care about.\u00a0 Missing the things we used to be able to do so freely.\u00a0 I feel like I&#8217;m losing a part of who I am.\u00a0 \u00a0And I&#8217;m eating my feelings in the process.\u00a0 This weekend was not something I&#8217;m proud of.\u00a0 Chips and dip.\u00a0 Chocolate chip cookies.\u00a0 Gummy bears.\u00a0 I even bought some Wagon Wheels because they reminded me of childhood.<\/p>\n<p>I stared at that reflection and didn&#8217;t love what I saw and I&#8217;m wondering if anybody else has those days?\u00a0 \u00a0You wonder what happened?\u00a0 Where did those extra pounds come from?\u00a0 When did I get &#8220;old&#8221;?\u00a0 (smile)<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to be 50 this year and I don&#8217;t want to celebrate a milestone age and feel unhappy about my body or that reflection.\u00a0 I&#8217;m seeing the changes.\u00a0 Grey hair that I&#8217;ve now covered up.\u00a0 Wrinkles.\u00a0 What the heck happened to my neck? (smile) Age spots on my hands.<\/p>\n<p>Age is just a number.\u00a0 It&#8217;s how you FEEL about yourself that really counts.<\/p>\n<p>So I have a proposition for you.<\/p>\n<p>Would you be interested in a self-care challenge?\u00a0 \u00a0A group of us that want to improve our health and wellness in a healthy way, showing up daily for support and accountability and working on improving ourselves together, one day at a time?\u00a0 Would you be interested?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m just thinking out loud right now and I really hope I&#8217;m not the only one feeling a little lost right now.\u00a0 I miss people and I miss connection.\u00a0 I miss positivity.\u00a0 \u00a0I miss feeling supported by others.<\/p>\n<p>Let me know and I will make it happen.<\/p>\n<p>I will invite people to help us and give us information.<\/p>\n<p>A feel good challenge to get us to summer and help us all feel better about ourselves and build connection that we might be missing.<\/p>\n<p>Stay in touch with me anytime.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:cbuchanan@blackburnradio.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cbuchanan@blackburnradio.com\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I need a pep talk.\u00a0 \u00a0I need some encouragement and motivation. 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