{"id":31482,"date":"2024-10-28T12:59:14","date_gmt":"2024-10-28T16:59:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/?p=31482"},"modified":"2024-10-28T16:35:12","modified_gmt":"2024-10-28T20:35:12","slug":"ladies-this-one-is-for-you-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/blogs\/afternoons\/2024\/10\/ladies-this-one-is-for-you-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Ladies &#8211; This One Is For You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sorry guys, but this one is for the ladies.<\/p>\n<p>I attended the monthly &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sarniabookkeeper.com\/change-your-life-book-club\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Change Your Life Book Club<\/a>&#8221; at the Book Keeper yesterday hosted by Sarah Maxfield &#8211; Certified Health and High-Performance Coach.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a monthly event that has been going on for about a year and a half.\u00a0 I haven&#8217;t been to all of them.\u00a0 This was only my second, but I can tell you that I am excited about what&#8217;s to come.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, the topic was &#8220;Hormonal Harmony &#8211; Menstruation and Menopause &#8211; Health and Self Expression&#8221;.\u00a0 \u00a0I saw the event last minute and was immediately drawn to it.\u00a0 The last few years I have been struggling to understand what is going on with me.\u00a0 I mean, the pandemic was a challenge for everyone, but when I turned 50 IN a pandemic, with social isolation and lock downs, I hit a low that I had never felt.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn&#8217;t understand what was going on.\u00a0 I chalked it up to turning 50 in a pandemic and hoped things would get better.<\/p>\n<p>I have been doing a lot of reading and listening to podcasts.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve still felt off.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve been trying to reason it out, and figure it out.<\/p>\n<p>But I have a greater understanding of all that we go through as we get older.\u00a0 One of the books suggested from the Book Club hit every single point of what I have been feeling and going through the last few years of my life. Maybe you can relate to it as well.<\/p>\n<p>The book is called <em><strong>&#8220;Wise Power.\u00a0 Discovering the Liberating Power of Menopause to Awaken Authority, Purpose and Belonging&#8221;<\/strong><\/em>.\u00a0 \u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sarniabookkeeper.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ask for it at The Book Keeper<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-31484 \" src=\"https:\/\/storage.briwebapp.net\/2024\/10\/cf2f712b-wise-power-695x927.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"379\" height=\"506\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.briwebapp.net\/2024\/10\/cf2f712b-wise-power-695x927.jpg 695w, https:\/\/storage.briwebapp.net\/2024\/10\/cf2f712b-wise-power-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/storage.briwebapp.net\/2024\/10\/cf2f712b-wise-power.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 379px) 100vw, 379px\" \/>&#8220;Menopause is a pause in normal life when you&#8217;re called to reflect on the life you&#8217;ve lived thus far. Your personal history comes back to bite you on teh bum, asking to be tended to and healed.\u00a0 You&#8217;re confronted by your worst parts &#8211; not so that you can judge or fix them, but to make peace with them, with the complexity of being you. It&#8217;s a reckoning with yourself, your life situations and Life itself.&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It&#8217;s divided up into four parts, and I&#8217;m pretty sure no matter where you happen to be in your journey in this life, this book will help you understand so much more.<\/p>\n<p>I have highlighted most of the first chapter.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;You may find that you want to abandon everyone and everything for a while, including your nearest and dearest.&#8221;&#8230;. &#8220;have a desire to destroy, get rid of or walk away from some or all of it&#8230; you&#8217;ll need to retreat, like a caterpillar going into its cocoon&#8230;.. you may feel lost of abandoned, or simply want to step off the world for a while&#8230;you&#8217;ll feel like your previous life, or the way you used to live it, doesn&#8217;t hold much charm or interest right now&#8230; You want to abandon responsibility.. and rest&#8230; Any unresolved or unattended issues from your past, including traumas, will come up, calling to be addressed and healed or released to the best of your ability. You&#8217;re making peace with your past.\u00a0 this is crucial.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And all this is happening as you go about your regular day to day life.<\/p>\n<p>Is it any wonder we feel overwhelmed?<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know where you are in life.\u00a0 (Younger ladies, there is a book for you as well.\u00a0 \u00a0Look up Wild Power.\u00a0 Same authors.\u00a0 It speaks more to the earlier years of menstruation.\u00a0 It&#8217;s empowering and might just change the way you see your monthly cycles.)<\/p>\n<p>Change Your Life Book Club happens monthly at the Book Keeper Book Store in Sarnia and I highly recommend you watch for the next one.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve been told November&#8217;s book could be Good Energy and then it takes a break for December and is coming back in January with a focus on healthy habits and February might be along the lines of somatic therapy.\u00a0 I am super excited.<\/p>\n<p>For now, I&#8217;m digging into Wise Power.\u00a0 And feeling so excited to feel understand and validated.<\/p>\n<p>If you can relate to not feeling yourself &#8211; maybe you&#8217;re in this season of change too &#8211;\u00a0I highly encourage you to pick up this book.\u00a0 And feel free to share the &#8220;aha&#8221; moments you get.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s keep the discussion going so nobody feels alone in it.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:cbuchanan@blackburnmedia.ca\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cbuchanan@blackburnmedia.ca<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Sorry guys, but this one is for the ladies. 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