{"id":5529,"date":"2019-09-30T12:00:17","date_gmt":"2019-09-30T16:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/?p=5529"},"modified":"2019-09-30T11:30:57","modified_gmt":"2019-09-30T15:30:57","slug":"ive-said-goodbye-to-facebook-at-least-for-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/blogs\/afternoons\/2019\/09\/ive-said-goodbye-to-facebook-at-least-for-today\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;ve Said Goodbye To Facebook &#8211; At Least For Today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s not you. It&#8217;s me.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s what I said as I deactivated my Facebook account today.<\/p>\n<p>I need space. I need to know who I am without it.\u00a0 I need to remember what life is like without worrying about likes and comments and shares and numbers. I need to live life without the thought of &#8220;This will make a great post!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Anybody else ready for a social media break?<\/p>\n<p>Because I am.\u00a0 And I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s going to be hard.\u00a0 And I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s going to make me realize just how &#8220;addicted&#8221; I may be to it.<\/p>\n<p>Checking likes and comments on my latest post.\u00a0 Hoping for more likes.\u00a0 Feeling discouraged by few likes and comments.<\/p>\n<p>Are we too reliant on social media?\u00a0 I look at my kids on their phones and worry about them.\u00a0 They seem to rely on social media as much as oxygen to breath.<\/p>\n<p>With the politics, and the negative comments, and the accusations and insults &#8211; it&#8217;s becoming too much. It can be draining. Exhausting.<\/p>\n<p>So I am going to do my best to walk away.\u00a0 For today.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m a bit nervous already and it&#8217;s only been a few hours.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve wanted to check my feed more times than I can count.<\/p>\n<p>I want to see if my presence is missed.\u00a0 I want to see if there is no social media, if maybe I reach out more, in a REAL WORLD way.<\/p>\n<p>So this is my test.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m wondering if I will feel MORE lonely without it. Or if not seeing everyone and their busy lives will make it seem LESS lonely.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a bit of an experiment so I will have to keep you updated.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&lt;!&#8211; HTML Credit Code for Can Stock Photo &#8211;&gt;<br \/>\n&lt;a href=&#8221;https:\/\/www.canstockphoto.com&#8221;&gt;(c) Can Stock Photo \/ karenr&lt;\/a&gt;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s not you. It&#8217;s me. It&#8217;s what I said as I deactivated my Facebook account today. I need space. I need to know who I am without it.\u00a0 I need to remember what life is like without worrying about likes and comments and shares and numbers. 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