{"id":7028,"date":"2020-01-06T12:06:28","date_gmt":"2020-01-06T17:06:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/?p=7028"},"modified":"2020-01-06T12:18:28","modified_gmt":"2020-01-06T17:18:28","slug":"im-a-mess-not-really-but-back-to-work-is-tough","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cfgxfm\/blogs\/afternoons\/2020\/01\/im-a-mess-not-really-but-back-to-work-is-tough\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m A Mess! Not Really, But Back To Work Is Tough"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s a new year, a new decade, and as exciting as that might be &#8211; today is the first day back to routine for a lot of us, and it&#8217;s tough!<\/p>\n<p>Please, please, please &#8211; tell me I am NOT alone in the struggle today.\u00a0 How are you feeling?\u00a0 How are you adjusting?\u00a0 Are you feeling a bit confused and lost, like me?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been on vacation for close to two weeks and it was incredible.\u00a0 Time with family and friends, celebrating Christmas and New Year&#8217;s, organizing, prioritizing, time to do things I&#8217;ve been unable to do much of &#8211; like use my Happy Planner, finish a scrapbook, and work on the budget for 2020.\u00a0 Part of my promise to myself in the new year.<\/p>\n<p>A few minutes into my first day back to work today and I think I forgot how to work.\u00a0 (smile).\u00a0 \u00a0I say that with a laugh, but it&#8217;s kinda true.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-12163\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/bri-web-app-wordpress\/2020\/01\/0d520333-work-funny.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"446\" height=\"542\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I couldn&#8217;t open my work computer because I forgot the password.\u00a0 I couldn&#8217;t access my email or other important information.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn&#8217;t access many things online today.\u00a0 It&#8217;s like my mind drew a complete blank.\u00a0 I was at a loss.\u00a0 One of my co-workers said &#8220;That&#8217;s the sign of a really good vacation!&#8221; with a chuckle.<\/p>\n<p>I have to agree.<\/p>\n<p>The last few weeks have been so relaxing.\u00a0 I didn&#8217;t think about work.\u00a0 I didn&#8217;t check emails or check in.\u00a0 I cleaned closets.\u00a0 Donated some stuff around the house we no longer use. I took naps in the afternoon because I could.\u00a0 (smile).<\/p>\n<p>I stayed up too late.\u00a0 Slept in.\u00a0 \u00a0I ate a big breakfast, and took my time sipping my coffee.<\/p>\n<p>I signed up for a <a href=\"https:\/\/agreatcanadianrunningchallenge.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">walking challenge<\/a> &#8211; and went for a few long walks.\u00a0 I exercised most days.<\/p>\n<p>I watched an entire Netflix series in one night.\u00a0 Unbelievable is really good if you&#8217;re looking for a suggestion.<\/p>\n<p>Are you able to distance yourself from your job and really ENJOY your vacation? I sure hope you had a wonderful holiday and are excited about what&#8217;s to come in 2020.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t really make resolutions on January 1st.\u00a0 I am constantly working on myself.\u00a0 And I feel I am constantly starting over. (smile)<\/p>\n<p>But I keep trying.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m promising myself more time to work on my scrapbooks\/ and planners.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m promising to stay on top of our finances and do my best to work on a budget.\u00a0 Wish it was something I was better at.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m promising myself to stick to a workout routine.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m promising myself to clean up my diet.\u00a0 Not just for me, but for my whole family.\u00a0 Less packaged and processed.\u00a0 More REAL food.<\/p>\n<p>If you are making resolutions &#8211; listen to this podcast and let me know if you find it as helpful as I did.<\/p>\n<p>We tend to make GOALS but lack a plan of action.\u00a0 If we start the new year with goals, we need to make a plan of action.\u00a0 Steps to achieving our goal.\u00a0 We need to set rules for ourselves.\u00a0 Jay Shetty is a guy you may have seen online &#8211; he&#8217;s motivating and inspiring and has some good advice for us in the New Year.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/jayshetty.me\/the-4-tier-framework-to-effective-goal-setting-why-youve-failed-in-the-past\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">4 -Tier Framework To Effective Goal Setting<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Happy New Year!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00a9 Can Stock Photo \/ PixelsAway<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s a new year, a new decade, and as exciting as that might be &#8211; today is the first day back to routine for a lot of us, and it&#8217;s tough! 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