{"id":10394,"date":"2023-05-01T01:00:25","date_gmt":"2023-05-01T05:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cibufm\/?p=10394"},"modified":"2023-05-05T06:53:48","modified_gmt":"2023-05-05T10:53:48","slug":"how-are-you-really","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/briwebapp.net\/cibufm\/blogs\/2023\/05\/how-are-you-really\/","title":{"rendered":"7\/65 &#8211; How Are You &#8230; Really?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-10407\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.briwebapp.net\/2023\/04\/a77035ec-313359521_1518742138643509_8122175921006523537_n.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"397\" \/><br \/>\nMental Health &#8230; we all have it and occasionally we all struggle with it at varying degrees. On the <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasters.spotify.com\/pod\/show\/phil-main\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">podcast<\/a> this week, we&#8217;re catching up with John Steffler to learn a little more about him, his family and the loss of their son\/brother\/grandson. We will talk about the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tannerstefflerfoundation.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Tanner Steffler Foundation,<\/strong><\/a> founded in Tanner&#8217;s memory, and how it serves as a response to their grief and as a lighthouse of hope and resources for other young people and families in the community.<\/p>\n<p>But before we chat with John &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>*****<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">A few years ago I got a message wondering how I was coping after a very special fundraising effort I&#8217;d been a part of. I, along with an incredible team of support staff and friends had run 120k spread over 5 consecutive days to raise awareness for 5 mental health organizations in Midwestern Ontario. #RunPhilRun\u00a0 The training and planning had consumed my life for several months prior. I responded to the message and told her I was fine. She asked again, <strong>&#8220;How are you &#8230; really?&#8221;<\/strong> I was in fact, not fine. I was dealing with post show blues &#8230; the sadness that often comes for me when something wonderful reaches its natural conclusion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Milli&#8221; and I had met at a TSF event in March of 2019. We gathered with, well over 100 other people that evening at the Livery in Goderich, to be <em>In Conversation<\/em> about our mental health struggles and the fight to remove the stigma that often surrounds it.<\/p>\n<p>This first week of May (<b>May 1 \u2013 7)<\/b>\u00a0is a time for communities, families and friends to come together to mark <a href=\"https:\/\/cmho.org\/cmhw2023\/#:~:text=The%20first%20week%20of%20May,mark%20Children's%20Mental%20Health%20Week.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Children&#8217;s Mental Health Week.<\/a><br \/>\nThat and all of the above considered &#8230; we thought perhaps this might be an okay time to tell you quickly how it all started for Boomer &amp; Milli &#8230;\u00a0 and how it&#8217;s going.<\/p>\n<p>*Side note: If you&#8217;re wondering &#8230;what is the Boomer &amp; Milli thing about? Fast forward to a time about a year ago &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Her: Do you know where we are?<br \/>\nMe: Not\u00a0exactly &#8230; there&#8217;s a map in the glove compartment if you wanna grab it.<br \/>\nHer: Whoa &#8230; slow your roll there Indiana Jones &#8230; I&#8217;ll just Google Map it.<br \/>\nMe:<br \/>\nHer:<br \/>\nMe: Millennial<br \/>\nHer: Boomer<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s pretty simple, but there it is. The birth of <strong><em>The Adventures of Boomer &amp; Milli<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know &#8230; this post is all over the place and chaotic but that&#8217;s kind of who we are &#8230; So without further ado (he said, furthering the ado) please click the link below for more on our story and my conversation with John.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasters.spotify.com\/pod\/show\/phil-main\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A Life That&#8217;s Good &#8211; Podcast &#8211; &#8220;How Are You &#8230; Really?&#8221;<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And, please see the pics below for a few glimpses into that special night in 2019 and a couple extras in support of TSF and better mental health for us all.<\/p>\n<p>[gallery ids=&#8221;10409,10408,10397,10398,10396,10395,10400,10401,10402,10403,10404,10399,10405,10406,10407&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Mental Health &#8230; we all have it and occasionally we all struggle with it at varying degrees. 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